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A woman who works from her home is disappointed by the mother of her step -daughter who wants to take care of the child while working
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She shared her dissatisfaction with Mumsnet, wondering if she was unreasonable by saying “no” as this caused tension with her partner
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Many commentators have come to her and one said it was “a relief to hear a woman saying that I said” no “to compromise her work”
A woman who refuses to take care of her step -daughter while working from home is now in dispute with her ex -partner.
The disappointed 33-year-old woman explained in a publication on the popular forum, based in the UK Mumsnet, that her work, governing a financial team for local government, is very demanding and stressful. She has no biological children, but her partner, 33, has a 9-year-old daughter from a previous relationship who often interrupts her work.
“Every time my daughter is bad or this is the school holidays and her mother has not arranged the right care for children, she always asks me to take care of her because” I work from home so I can take care of her, “the woman said. “Every time she asked me, I always said” no. “
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A woman leaves a child with a seat (photo)
Her refusal now causes tension between the mother of her step -daughter and her partner, as she has an argument that she has to do herself to be careful about the girl.
“However, I do not see why it is different for someone who goes to a place of work who cannot care for a child, someone who WFH (works from home),” the woman said. “I am in meetings, training, phone calls and sit in silence without television/music when I work. I have to concentrate. I cannot take care of a bad child while I work too,” she continued.
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The woman added that there were times when she was asked to work from the office. However, when she is distant, the expectation is that she “can just” care “about her step -daughter.
“Besides, it doesn’t help that a step -daughter doesn’t listen to me much,” she said. “When I ask her to do something or not to do something, she more often ignores me and I have to repeat myself 10 times or ask my father to arrange it.”
The woman said she understood her role in the life of her step -daughter, but did not want to compromise her career.
“My career, it’s important. I have no children and to respect and understand that I am with my partner, he has a daughter, so it comes with additional factors, but I don’t see how this should affect my work,” she said.
The bigger part of the users tried to reassure the woman that she was not wrong and asked why the father was not called to provide care.
“You’re not even slightly wrong, but I wonder that her father, as well as her mother, who makes her share of care for children when she is ill or on holidays?” One wrote.
Another added that it was “a relief to hear a woman saying that I said” no “compromising my work for someone else’s requests! Absolutely not. “
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In addition, she was brought up that home work was still a job, not free children’s services.
“WFH doesn’t mean you can take care of children while you work. I don’t do it with your own children,” a consumer said.
In updating her post, the woman said that the mother of the birth of the child “asks me directly, she never goes to my partner to ask, always straight to me” and betrays to her partner that his daughter cannot be with her unless she listens after another accident where she was ignored.
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